Life as an Austin Realtor

As I'm watching the television show "Two and a Half Men", I can't help to laugh how Evelyn Harper, the main characters' mother is portrayed as a blood sucking Realtor. In this particular episode, her son Charlie, played by Charlie Sheen, is trying to connect with her emotionally, but shortly into the conversation, she receives a call from a local cardiologist letting her know that his patient, who lived in Beverly Hills just died. Without delay, Evelyn cuts the conversation short and flies out the door before "the rest of the blood sucking vampires" hear about the potential listing. Though, my life as an Austin Realtor may not be as glamorous or dramatic or even comical as a Realtor in Beverly Hills, I have to ask myself "Do I cut people off or put important conversations on hold or miss important events for the sake of a potential client?" In all honesty, I more than likely have missed some of my son's school events or rescheduled lunch with my wife in hopes of getting a new listing or client. I've even come to accept that Sundays and evenings are part of the "normal" working hours as a Realtor in Austin. I know that many other Realtors will argue or comment that boundaries must be set, and I completely agree with them, but the trouble I have is finding where those boundaries are. Trying to find the definition between "work" time and "personal" time is something that I've always struggled with. Part of my coping mechanism has been to befriend all of my clients so that the time I spend with them either on the phone or in person feels more like recreation than work. Don't get me wrong, there is no replacing spending time with my family or close friends, but I find that by really getting to know my clients, I better understand their needs and wants as well as it helps build a lasting relationship, far beyond the closing of the sale. As my son gets older (he's currently 4) I know that he is going to demand more of my time to make sure that he never feels neglected or ignored. I don't think that he's going to understand when I try to explain to him that Daddy has to go to the sports bar for a "networking" event or that I am constantly on the computer working on a deal or making sure that my website is the best that it can be. Austin is a highly competitive and technologically advanced business center. In the Austin real estate market, it is a constant effort to make sure that you are on the leading edge of technology in reaching prospects, promoting your listings and making yourself "relevant" to not only the general public but to Google, Bing and Yahoo as well. I used to think that being on Facebook, Twitter and YouTube was for solely for social and recreational enjoyment, but I've come to learn and incorporate those sites as a new channel of communication to reach my family, friends, clients and associates to let them know that I do have interests and a life outside of real estate. All in all, I love being an Austin Realtor, I just hate having to call it work.

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